Mistress Kay ~ St. Louis, MO

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Unique, classy and creative Mistress Kay is a Diva Queen Mistress. Instead of leather and vinyl you will usually see Her in a formal or an interesting dress. Yes, She does have leather and vinyl to wear, if so requested and you beg well. She prefers to be barefoot often slipping off Her heels so you can’t hear where She is at. She enjoys the novice, introducing them slowly to the possibilities of their own fetishes. Being a sadistical lifestyle Mistress She welcomes heavy players for some extreme play.

I prefer first contact to be your application

To learn even more visit Her web site:

Mistress Kay's BDSM Sanctuary


My Natural or usual hair color Red
Do I wear wigs Yes I am Matriarchal
Natural Eye color Blue I am a Gynarchist
I wear color contacts: No Personally, I am VERY Sadistic
My Gender is Female I can be intense but don’t have to be
Sexual Preference Bisexual I am a 27/7 Mistress - E/everyone knows
Do I switch:  NO -I rule all the time I offer extended sub/slave Training 
I have been into BDSM as   Pro-Domme& Lifestyle Mistress I will train for another Domme
I  have been into BDSM   20+ years I like submissive subjects
Do I have Aids/HIV No - tested in last 6 months I like slave mentalities
Do I  have Hepatitis No - Completed vaccinations I like a respectful challenge
Other Transmittable/Herpes No I allow a slow word
I allow a safe word
I can be Sensual Domme
  Animal Play   Candle/Oil   Video / Pictures
Puppy Play Candle/Wax Play – Mild Cam recorded  offered
Candle/Wax Play –Medium I’ll take the pictures of you 
  Role Playing   Candle/Wax Play – Heavy    I use My photographer
Boss   Candle/Wax Play with burns  
Seductress   Hot Oil Play   Sensory
Aunt     Over-stimulation
Grandma/Old age   Mothering / Corporal    Earplugs
Witch   Time out in the corner   Blind-folds
Teacher   Corporal punishments  

Hood – Leather

Goddess   I give over the knee spankings   Hood – Spandex
  Paddles are for spanking   Liquid Latex
  Humiliation & Water    Bare hand spankings  
Public Humiliation Belts   Training
Kicking   Switches Etiquette & Language
  Potty chair Hairbrush slave Training
Used as Foot mat/ foot rest Force feeding maid/servitude Training
Golden shower – topical Mouth Soaping Dominance Training
Being human furniture   Dungeon Monitoring
Medical Gynarchical Training
Electrical Autoclave
Violet Wand  Pin Hammer Genital  to Anal
TENS Percussion Hammer Clothespins
Jennings Clamp Genital Crushing
  Gags Suction Pump    Genital Flogging
Open mouth ring gags

Non-Latex gloves

CBT – Light
Gag balls Hospital Grade Alco& Soap CBT – Moderate

Dirty panties

Sounds  CBT – Heavy
Penis gags   Infusion Genital Flogging
Enemas Parachute and weights
Chastity Shaving   Ball Stretchers
I offer chastity Wartenberg Genital Bondage
  They bring chastity device Glass dildos
I am a key holder – for a fee Forced Fem & sissies Rubber dildos
I use locks I take sissy subjects

Latex dildos

  I use tamper proof numbers I have fewer than five wigs Gel dildos
I have make-up for sissies Plastic dildos
Worship I have sissy fake nails to apply Anal Play
Bare foot Worship I have sissy lingerie /hosiery Vaginal Fisting
Shoe Worship I have sissy  clothes I have/use insertables 
Boot Worship I do ‘forced’ feminization Finger or mouth vibrator
  Goddess Worship Eggs
Worship to knee only Nipple/Breast Abrasion
NT Clamp/clip 5+ Trampling
Tortures Vibrating clamps  
Weights   Breast Press Restraints/ Mummy
Tickle torture Suction Wrist Cuffs


  Abrasion Ankle cuffs
Foot Torture Clothespins Thigh Cuffs
Situational Torture Locking Cuffs
Figging Smoke & Fire Metal  - handcuffs
Kidnapping Play I smoke during sessions Bondage mitts
  Hot pepper torture Cigar smoker

Ace bandage mummification

Blackmail Play

  Human ashtray – ashes only I do immobilization bondage
Ashtray to stamp out  smoke Plastic wrap mummification
Other Equipment Cigarette burns I have a cage
A massage / exam table Rope

I have stocks

Money slaves   Plaster mummification
Cross or spread eagle Postal I have a cell
Ceiling Eyebolts On-Line Swings
Wall Eyebolts   Chains
  Whipping post Spanking & Paddles
Cross Over 15 different paddles Caning & Rods


  I do hand spanking I do caning
Bats & crops I do over he knee spanking   I have more than five canes
Vaginal / Anal Hook Spanking bench Caning should leave marks
  CBT/  ‘V’ chair   Disposable canes and rush
Fantasy rack/inversion Floggers   Acrylic rods
Cupping Set Over 15  floggers   Torture stick
Unique implements Floggers that can be bio cleaned   Caning  makes you bleed

Plastic, beaded, or other

  Edge Play

Single & Dragon Tails
Vampire - Biting   Buggy Whip (over 5’)
Nail/Claw scratching/digging I have 5-10 different tails 
Needles/Knives/Swords   Trainer Whip (under 5’)
Breath play
Vampire/ bunny glove



I want E/everyone to feel comfortable and safe to play. To attend Me you would have a DaDunegon Card (http://www.dadungeon.com) OR a Black Orchid Gynarchic Society Card (http://bogs.matriarchsociety.com) as both are given after signature of an age verification, Confidentiality Agreement, and liability waiver.

I often have tasks to be completed around My house or there are remodeling projects for Da Dungeon.  Perhaps I will let you perform laborious tasks as your tribute. 

I allow same day sessions only with My well known subjects.

Days of the week: Everyday 
Earliest Session:  10am CST
Latest Start:  Midnight
My subjects always give Me generous tributes and gifts, usually
First Session ~ $250.00 or more
˝ hour ~ $175.00 or more
1 to 2 Hours ~ $250.00 per hour or more
3 to 5 Hours ~ $200.00 per hour or more
To be discussed: Overnight, Week-ends, Double Dominas, Additional attendees, Vacations and Travel